HER
INSIGHTS
This is where story and science meet — Posts exploring anxiety, trauma, and nervous system regulation with the healing power of breath, movement, and botanical support. Journal-style musings on intuition, the mother wound, and personal reflections.
These reflections are rooted in lived experience and nervous system wisdom.
Written with care to help you feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.
winter Solstice - A Turning Point of Darkness, Light, and Deep Listening
Winter Solstice has been honored for thousands of years because it marks a precise and powerful moment in the earth’s rhythm—
the shortest day and the longest night of the year.
WINTER SOLSTICE RITUAL — WELCOMING THE RETURNING LIGHT
Spiral breath
A gentle practice to help the body soften, unwind tension, and bring awareness to where anxiety may be hiding.
Sage — Wisdom As Protection
Sharp, grounding, and clarifying, this ancient herb helps you hear your truth again—then guards it with quiet strength.
Entering The Inner Cave
In late autumn, bears begin slipping into hibernation—not on a precise date, but when the world around them shifts. As daylight fades, temperatures drop, and food becomes more challenging to find, these furry beings naturally read these cues and choose to go inward.
Each year, I notice how my body does something similar.
When the Light Fades: How the Body Responds to Winter
Winter asks the body to soften, but that softening can feel unsettling when our nervous system is used to a faster pace. In this month’s Gentle Science piece, we explore how changes in light, melatonin, serotonin, and the pineal gland shape our anxiety in early winter—and why these sensations are not a sign of something wrong, but a sign that your body is recalibrating.
The Body’s Reflection of Appreciation and Connection
The body is always listening. Every breath, every heartbeat, every subtle shift in muscle tone reflects the signals it receives from the world around and within us. When awareness softens into appreciation — that quiet state of connection and coherence — the body mirrors it through rhythm, chemistry, and calm.
The Three Good Things
Developed by Positive Psychology founder Dr. Martin Seligman, Three Good Things is a gentle reflection that helps the mind remember moments of goodness and the body settle into balance.
Nodi Shodhana
Nadi Shodhana, or alternate-nostril breathing, is said to purify the body’s energy channels — the nadis — creating harmony between the right and left sides of the brain.
Gratitude - Without the Homework
For me, gratitude isn’t a list or a command. It’s not something I can force myself to feel or prove by writing it down. Gratitude, to me, is more like a quiet relationship between body, breath, and being — a conversation that unfolds when I slow down enough to listen.
Weed to Wisdom - A Dandelion root Latte Ritual
Once labeled a weed, Dandelion teaches us the art of reclamation — how to rise again, rooted in truth, even after being cut down.
Autumn Equinox Ritual and remedies
Twice each year, the world pauses in balance. Day and night meet as equals — light and dark holding one another. This brief moment, the Equinox, reminds us that balance is not static but a rhythm.
Where Anxiety Lives in The body: What I Wish I Had Known
I wish someone had told me that trauma and anxiety are deeply interwoven — creating strong, misunderstood emotions that are not signs of weakness, but signals of something deeper. Together, they are informational.
Oat Staw and Milky Tops - Gentle Nourishment
Oat invites rest, softness, and the kind of slow restoration that can only come from consistent care.
The Psoas Muscle: where Safety Lives In The body
Some women describe feeling vulnerable, as if letting go of this deep muscle might cause them to “fall apart.”
Anxiety and Life Transitions: Mothering Yourself Through Change
We go through life changes because if we didn’t, well we wouldn’t be living.
The Gentle Work of Herbs
Herbs offer more than symptom relief. Many have been used for centuries to calm the nervous system, build resilience, and restore balance — gently and respectfully.
Dandelion — The Wounded Healer
Dandelion reminds us that even what is cast aside can root deep, rise bright, and scatter seeds of healing on the wind.
Thawing from “Freeze Mode” - Escaping depression
Within freeze mode, the hyper-arousal from the fight/flight response remains hidden in the body. To return to homeostasis, one must first navigate back through the fight/flight state.
The Body Knows: How anxiety hides in the Chakras
And when we slow down enough to listen, the body begins to reveal itself.
Balance Isn’t Perfection — It’s a Practice
The verb “balance” means to keep or position something steadily so it doesn’t fall.